Can someone add you as a close friend on facebook and when they put a status you see it?

[Josh]

You probably accidentally set her as a close friend. I personally think that the close friend thing is stupid and it's pretty annoying to have to take someone off.

If she did get added to your close friend list here is how to remove her:
Go to the close friends list on the left toolbar
Click "See All" on the top right (should have peoples pictures near it)
Find her name
Click the X at the top right of her name

Hope this helped!