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Going out with a really popular girl?
02-26-2014, 12:25 AM
Post: #1
Going out with a really popular girl?
There's a girl I've been talking to for a month. I don't talk much at all, I'm really quiet and shy, and one day my best friend wasn't at school and so at lunch, I asked his other friend's sister where was he? I wasn't flirting at all, she was way to beautiful for me to even began thinking I even had a chance. She said he wasn't hear, and I was like oh ok, and started walking away but she was walking with me before I realized it, and kept talking to me. So we had a conversation, and before we knew it we were back to class (walking from lunch). It was cool, but I didn't have any like excitement in me; I just thought "just another pretty girl passing by.. she's nice though!" And then after last period, I walked and she happened to see me and waited for me. It caught me off guard like, is the most beautiful girl at the school really waiting for me? I smiled at her, like I always do to anyone I don't talk to much but talked toi before, and she smiled back and said hey. I was walking to my car but then she asked "are you gonna walk me to the bus?" And I stuttered so bad.. I was like "wh- huh? To the b.. uh, sure!" And so I did and she gave me a hug and I hugged her back. It was cool. I didn't have any feelings, though. I don't EVER go for girls out of my league. She's so popular and I only have a few personal friends. The next day, after 2nd period she knew I was gonna be there, and she waited for me. She said "hey!" And I was like, "oh, hey!" And she said "I wrote you this." And she gave me a note. I was shocked. I think I felt myself blush.. the most pretty girl in the school, gave a normal shy dude that doesn't talk much, a note.. I didn't know what to think. From there, it increased and we both like each other more than ever. But I sometimes feel like it's too good to be true. She likes me so much and I don't know what I did!? She says she finds my nervousness s*xy. Is that a thing? I don't understand the mind of a woman lol. I went to the movies with her yesterday and we didn't even focus on the movie at all lol.
She gave me her facebook password and email, and I went on her account and she has 55 NOTIFICATIONS! WHAT THE HECK man! I get an average of 5! Well it's because it's a secret account that doesn't use my name.. but on my real one (before I deactivated it), I got an average of 15-20. The more and more I see how popular she is, the more and more intimidated I am and feel like I'm not even worthy. I tell her all the time, and she says "I like you because you're human, feelings and all. You think you're not funny but you really are and make me laugh all the time! And you're the only guy that doesn't just like me for my butt. I want to be with youSmile" She says all that type of stuff but on my point of view, I feel like I've been silent the whole time.
Is dating a girl far more popular than you, bad? Should I ask her out finally? She really wants me to.. I like her a LOT, and if she hadn't approached me like that at the start, we would never be talking because I never go for woman THAT beautiful. Her body is amazing and her face is so pretty, she's puertorican and everything and she is SO FUNNY she makes me laugh a lot.. she's like the total opposite of me.
Have you had any experiences of someone really popular that everyone wants, goes for you? Did it go bad?
Like I do absolutely nothing but just, be myself really. And she keeps telling me "everyday I keep falling for you more and more.. I think I'm in love. I'll never leave you, you're the only one I want, I don't want ANY OTHER GUY BUT YOU." It's stuff like that that she says, that makes me think that maybe it wouldn't be so bad..Smile she's a virgin (hard to believe because of how attractive she is, but she is one nevertheless) and she's told me that she wants to lose it to me :x
Man. I'm reading these answers and you guys are some great people.

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02-26-2014, 12:34 AM
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Live it up, she will dump you soon enough.

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02-26-2014, 12:51 AM
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I think you should ask her out, even if shes popular. Being popular doesn't mean anything to her, plus it isn't bad. I mean opposites attract right. ASk her, I hope everything goes well!
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02-26-2014, 12:53 AM
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she really likes u. ask her out as for experience not me but http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...114AA3QQaw not to intimated u not be prepared to be look at if u go out with her. it i to be expected since u r going out with a popular girl. she seems really down to earth. i hope u two go out. good luck. also she like u probably becuz ur r the opposite. if she was dating a popular guy and outgoing guy they probably only want her for her body and beauty. u find her interesting not her body.
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02-26-2014, 01:03 AM
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Here&#x27;s the thing about popularity: it only matters before a couple is together and prevents the start of relationships. You were fortunate enough to break the popularity barrier and got into her good graces. Popularity truly does not matter to her at this point and your relationship would probably be successful. She sounds like a great girl and you only have one chance to do something great in life. Not to be jealous, but you are really lucky to have a chance with her. Act on it! How will you know the way it will turn out if you never try? To quote Steve Jobs, &quot;Remembering that you are going to die one day is the best way to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. Follow your heart.&quot;
Live your life to its fullest and don&#x27;t be afraid to challenge the status quo. Things have a way of working out in the end. Go for it and ask her out, you may be surprised by what happens. Good luck!
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