Is this man hinting that he likes/loves me?

[MinnieBinnie]

I think I may already know the answer to this, because I know most of the hints and eye-contact he's been giving me are obvious and I think he knows that I know too. But I want some more advice from people who've been there done that. I've been going to a somewhat conservative "group" or "organization" (soon becoming a member) for about 4 1/2 months now. The "top leader" is somewhat young, very attractive, and has a likable and lively personality. He's been married for 10 years to the same woman, and just recently had a baby. Upon first meeting him, he seemed very polite and had the most loving eyes. Second time seeing him, he caught a glimpse of me and seemed to be stopped in his tracks. We kept giving glances to each other. From then on, his eye contact with me is frequent and sometimes prolonged. He also added me on Facebook, but hasn't been communicating with me (from other members I suppose he doesn't communicate that often on FB). Surprisingly he's been somewhat candid on his relationship with his wife, saying that the first couple of years of marriage were rough and they almost divorced. And just today, he mentioned that he (or the organization) won't allow himself to be alone with a woman unless there's someone else present. This is understandable when he's in his office, but I believe he did say he won't be alone out for coffee or lunch with a woman. I found that odd, and worrisome. So what's going on with this guy? Marriage problems, boyish crush? How come I have feelings for him also? I feel kind of bad for him, honestly. Thanks.

ps: If you want more info on the "organization" or "the top leader", please e-mail. Also, is it pretty obvious if he's given me a few hugs here and there...even though it was around the time we first met?
Rap Queen - You don't know how many times I wanted to text/message him on FB just to see how he's doing. He's a very nice guy, and seems charismatic. But I'm going to feel like a huge mess of guilt afterwards, and I worry for his relationship with his wife. I've seen her, but I never formally met her and she doesn't seem to talk ('course I don't know her hardly at all). It'll be difficult.
Allan - I can't really get away from him, because he's the senior "leader" of this group, so he's almost always there and oversees almost everything. I sometimes wish he'd just divorce and put an end to a unhappy marriage (which I think he's enduring), but the baby keeps coming to mind. It'd be horrible for me to do something knowing he has a baby.

[Rap Queen]

Hmm.. Try talking to him and; flirting with him through text &; see if he flirts back .. Tell him how you feel about him .. Maybe he feels the same way! You never know! Good luck !

[Allan]

It seems like he likes u but i would steer away from him if I were. Normally I would say if someone like someone they should go for it even if they are marriage( not telling u to have an affair just saying to divorce then be with u) BUT he has a kid so that's off limits.
I agree with u. I would support u but they just had a baby and if he left it would just be horrible for the baby.

[mathi]

Do not get involved with a married man as you will feel guilty to have intruded into another woman's life. It is just physical attraction and would never last. The man has a child and it would be wrong on your part to get into a relationship with him. Stay away from him and make any interaction with him formal. This is the only way you can steer clear of the mess you will get into if you get involved with him.