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LovePink* · 10-03-2012, 11:13 AM

It's easier said than done. Me and my bf been together for over a year. Our relationship has alot of establishments and we always talk about our future and trying to manage the present. Long story short, this friend of his who I don't know, but have an idea of, use to like him. They've known each other for 4 years.
Somehow she's came back around because it's his last semester and they have a class together. Every since then, it's like on and off I've been getting gut feelings that ends up coming out of the closet mentally. We're always together so I know it's nothing physical, but I caught her calling him "Babe" in his Twitter DM. I came to him about this situation and her, but we ended up fighting.
He deleted her number and unfollowed her on Twitter and stuff, but something still isn't adding up at all. Everything else is long story. I'm just to the point where I'm starting to feel the need of letting him go but we've established ALOT together. The other day we made up after a huge argument and now we're going out this week on both our days off. What should I do though? I'm not naive but should I try to believe him although he lied?

LovePink* · 10-03-2012, 11:21 AM

Go with your gut feeling if your not feeling safe in the relationship not happy end it

mamatembo53 · 10-03-2012, 11:21 AM

It is hard when you have lost trust in him, but always go on your gut feelings, they are never wrong. You may need to let him go and see what happens. If nothing else, you won't have the agony of wondering what he is up to. If he cares about you, he'll be back. But if you decide to take him back, be sure to set clear guidelines, like his needing to be completely honest with you.
Good luck.

Twinkle · 10-03-2012, 11:21 AM

go with your gut feeling. if the trust has gone then its hard to get back

edie · 10-03-2012, 11:21 AM

it sounds like you have established a lot of things but trust. if you have a gut feeling you are not sure that there is nothing going on between them. you maybe overreacting for no reason at all. if she is a long time friend of his, he's not allowed to talk to any other females but you, what is the problem? i'm sure that a lot of girls have liked him in the past and until you have something concrete to go on just be cool. you can wreck your relationship with unfounded suspicions. and calling him babe and doing something more serious are two different things. and if you are always together and you know there is nothing physical going on then what is the problem. it is something that you are making up in your mind. he deleted her number and unfollowed her on twitter what else do you want him to do. being jealous can break you up too. but like i said until you can find something concrete you need to relax.